Grace and Satisfaction

According to Merriam Webster:

Grace. "unmerited divine assistance given to humans for their regeneration or sanctification" or "a virtue coming from God" To put it more simply, God giving me what I do not deserve.

Satisfaction. "fulfillment of a need or want" or "the quality of being satisfied."

This morning, in the midst of a season not of my choosing, these verses stood out to me. (Emphasis mine.)

Psalm 37:18-19, 23-24
18 The Lord watches over the blameless all their days,
and their inheritance will last forever.
19 They will not be disgraced in times of adversity;
they will be satisfied in days of hunger.

23 A man’s steps are established by the Lord,
and He takes pleasure in his way.
24 Though he falls, he will not be overwhelmed,
because the Lord holds his hand.[a]

The Lord doesn't promise that adversity will not come. In fact, he says that we will not be disgraced in times of adversity and that we will have satisfaction in days of hunger. He will give us the grace in adversity. We will not be disgraced. And... even if hungry, we will be satisfied in days of hunger. 

No disgrace in times of adversity? These words hit me as my prayer is to glorify Him in the midst of this season. I am unable to do that on my own, but only through His power. He will not allow me to be disgraced. He will bring grace, not disgrace. 

Hunger will come. How can one be satisfied while hungry? Because we have God. He is our Sustainer. He will bring satisfaction! This verse speaks of physical hunger, but I believe it could also apply to those who have other needs. Perhaps the hunger is due to loneliness and isolation. God still brings satisfaction, contentment. 

We will fall, but... we will not be overwhelmed. Why? Because He holds our hands. What an amazing thought! God holds our hands as we go through the season of adversity!

What precious and simple promises to carry us through difficult seasons. 

Grace. Satisfaction. God truly does give unmerited favor and contentment no matter the circumstances!



Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture quotations are taken from the Holman Christian Standard Bible®, Copyright © 1999, 2000, 2002, 2003, 2009 by Holman Bible Publishers. Used by permission. Holman Christian Standard Bible®, Holman CSB®, and HCSB® are federally registered trademarks of Holman Bible Publishers

HELP!

HELP!

One of the hardest things to admit is that help is needed. It can be humiliating and humbling. Why? Because of pride. Pride says that I can do it myself. Humility says that I am not sufficient in myself. 

For nearly a year, my health has been crumbling. Since I have dealt with chronic illnesses for 44 years, I thought I could handle it. And yet... no matter what I tried, nothing helped. My health continued to decline. Every day was a struggle to get through work and the basics of survival at home. Outside activities became too difficult to do or took much planning to rest for a couple days after the activity. Finally, I came to the place of admission that I needed help and reached out to my doctor.



As my doctor appointments approached, I asked God for wisdom and direction. Of course, I had my own ideas of what would bring healing. God in His wisdom had other plans and gently prepared me for them. 

The doctors were kind but firm, giving clear direction. I had to be willing not just to seek their help, but follow their direction. A year of striving to solve things on my own had to end. I had to give in and allow someone else to show me how to fight for health effectively. This is not easy. For several weeks, my life must change as I follow doctor's advice to return to health. Rest is difficult for me, but exactly what is needed along with learning new ways to handle the progression of the chronic illnesses. I must realize that I cannot do it on my own. I must be humble enough to ask for help.

Our gracious God does answer our cries for help as we humbly come to Him. Not only did God give direction through the doctors, but also is bringing refreshment to a very weary spirit. My time of rest began with a live-stream conference and continues with a study of the Psalms. 

The Psalmist often humbly expressed his need for help from our Lord. Look at Psalm 86, Holman Christian Standard Bible.

Psalm 86:1-4

Lament and Petition

A Davidic prayer.

1 Listen, Lord, and answer me,
for I am poor and needy.
2 Protect my life, for I am faithful.
You are my God; save Your servant who trusts in You.
3 Be gracious to me, Lord,
for I call to You all day long.
4 Bring joy to Your servant’s life,
because I turn to You, Lord.

Just as I had to reach out for help and then listen and follow the given advice, we must do the same thing while listening to the Lord. 

This time of learning to ask for help is a time of leaning on our great God. He will carry me through as I lean on Him and not on my own strength. He is our Provider and Sustainer!

Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture quotations are taken from the Holman Christian Standard Bible®, Copyright © 1999, 2000, 2002, 2003, 2009 by Holman Bible Publishers. Used by permission. Holman Christian Standard Bible®, Holman CSB®, and HCSB® are federally registered trademarks of Holman Bible Publishers

Waiting When the Season Is Long

It has been a long time since I last wrote, just shy of two years. They have been a long two years. While there have been many times of joy and laughter, there have been many hard times, times of sorrow, hurt, and prolonged illness. 

Most recently, I have had nearly a full year of one health struggle after another on top of regular life challenges, struggles and challenges that affect every part of my life and will be life-changing. These struggles have caused isolation, loneliness, and waiting. There is not an end in site as of yet.

It has been some of the hardest life lessons that I have been through; it has been some of the most cherished times in my life as God draws me close to Him. Some of the most painful times have also become the most precious as God closed one door and opened another. 

While I am finally seeing some improvement and positive changes in circumstances, there are weeks, possibly months, of recovery ahead. I wish I could say that I have and will always handle these things well, but, that would not be the truth. 

The times have been hard. So... how do we handle these times, waiting for God to work? 

We wait with courage and strength, waiting on the Lord. 
Psalm 27:14 HCSB, 

"Wait for the Lord;

be strong[a] and courageous.

Wait for the Lord."

We seek the Lord while we wait.
Lamentations 3:25 HCSB,

"The Lord is good to those who wait for Him,

to the person who seeks Him."

We are steadfast, while we wait.
James 1:12 HCSB,

"A man who endures trials[a] is blessed, because when he passes the test he will receive the crown of life that God[b] has promised to those who love Him."

We are content, while we wait.
Philippians 4:11-13 HCSB,

"11 I don’t say this out of need, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. 12 I know both how to have a little, and I know how to have a lot. In any and all circumstances I have learned the secret of being content—whether well fed or hungry, whether in abundance or in need. 13 I am able to do all things through Him[a] who strengthens me."

We hope in His Word, while we wait.
Psalm 130:5 HCSB,

"I wait for Yahweh; I wait

and put my hope in His word."

We pray, praise, and sing, while we wait.
Acts 16:25 HCSB,

"About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the prisoners were listening to them."

Did you notice how amazing God is in these verses? He is trustworthy. He is working in the waiting. He is still praise-worthy.

And so... while I wait for this struggling season to end, there is much to do. 

A Look Back at 2017...

Merry Christmas, 2017! :)

As my Christmas letter didn't get mailed this year, I decided to do a Christmas blog. :)

A year ago, I could never have imagined all that God has done this year. It was a year of challenges, sorrow, growing, and God doing above and beyond what I could ask or think. You see, this year as we continued our "firsts" without Dad, we were reminded again and again how precious life is, family is, and, most importantly, God is. Some of the highlights and challenges of this year include:

• learning how to better manage my health which allowed more energy and strength. The schedule and diet are stringent to manage everything, but it is well worth it.
• a wonderful family vacation to Pictured Rocks with many adventures and much laughter.
• strength to be more involved in my church which has been a blessing. 
• my first 5K. Sure... it took an hour and a half due to rough terrain, but it was wonderful to complete it! 
• an opportunity to attend the Sing!17 conference, sing in the choir, and ... sing on stage at the Grand Ole Opry! Seriously! I never dreamt I would ever have that opportunity. The entire trip was more incredible as we saw God's provision, met dear brothers and sisters in Christ, and sang in a nearly 200-person choir and with several thousand people praising God! It was indescribable to have a chance to sing with Keith and Kristyn Getty, Laura Story, Joni Erickson Tada, and many, many others. We learned so much from being in the choir as well as the conference sessions. (And... not everyone has the opportunity to do all of the above while wearing a health mask. :) )
• sorrow as my oldest brother's unexpected death again taught us to appreciate life. Our family again joined together to walk through great sorrow. 
• growing as God took us through so many ups and downs. He used each new experience to draw us closer to Him and mold us into His image.

There are pictures below of some of our adventures. 

Looking forward to 2018, I am uncertain of the future. Yet, I know Who holds the future. God will carry us through the challenges of 2018. He is faithful and His mercies are new every morning.

Behind the Mask, Part 2

A year ago, I wrote of an experience "Behind the Mask." One year later, I had another experience "Behind the Mask." This time, God showed me an example of perfect love casting out fear. (1 John 4:18)

A friend and I had the amazing opportunity to go to the Keith and Kristyn Getty SING!17 conference to learn how to help our church's music ministry more. Our excitement was high as we also were going to be in the choir for the conference and sing with many musicians we admired, even on stage at the Grand Ole Opry. We knew that worshipping with nearly 200 choir members and 5,000 in the audience not including the livestream was going to be a little piece of Heaven as we worshipped the King, our Father! :)

As we waited to begin our first choir rehearsal, my mind went back a year to the rejection I initially felt behind the mask. The past year had brought about having to wear the mask in even more situations. Would they let me sing in the choir with my health mask? Would I be rejected due to my limitations? Fears began to overcome me. My friend looked at me and held my gaze to ask a question. "Why are you here?"

"To worship God and to learn." I responded convicted.

"And where is your focus right now?" she went on.

"On my fear, limitations, and mask." I replied, sheepishly.

"Let's change that focus." she firmly but lovingly said.

Ouch. She was right. We had just been studying Ephesians 5:15-21 together in preparation for a week of music. She had decided to practice what we learned and rightfully admonished me. My fear had been overcoming my love for God.

Slowly, my focus shifted as I meditated on our God and some of the songs we were going to be singing. Choir rehearsal began. The choir director scanned his choir as we warmed up. I hate to admit that I still was a bit fearful. Would I be accepted? I watched his expression as his gaze rested on my health mask, on me. There was the slightest flicker of acknowledgement that something was different before his gaze went on to the next person.

Then, we finished the warm-up and began to sing praise to our God. The talent in the room was beyond anything I had been a part of previously. Our voices raised in full harmony to our Father. Love overcame fear; joy filled my heart until I thought it would explode. It truly was a taste of Heaven. My health mask was completely forgotten.

Throughout that week, I was accepted, mask and all. Sure... I had a few questions about it which made me chuckle from "Do you have cancer?" to "Are you paranoid about germs?" Or... when we were lining up backstage at the Grand Ole Opry and nerves were kicking in, everyone around us chuckled when I turned to ask my friend if I had anything in my teeth (not visible, obviously, under the mask) and without skipping a beat she told me I did. :) (My family and pastor even pointed out how thankful they were for the mask as it helped them locate us in the crowded choir. :) ) Throughout the week, the choir members in particular simply stepped in to help when my weakness required it, but with love, not pity.

Mainly, people simply saw me as just another member in our family praising our precious, glorious Father. :) Each person in the room had areas of brokenness for which we were eagerly awaiting our eternal Home with Jesus where we will be whole. Yet, they were forgotten as we praised the One Who will bring about this wholeness. I was no longer separated behind the mask, but one in unity with my brothers and sisters in Christ.

The last evening of the conference, Joni Eareckson Tata spoke. It was evident that after 50 years in the wheelchair serving God, she sometimes had the same difficulty with accepting and overcoming the daily, tedious struggles of living with disability. Her raw honesty was a tremendous help. She also is "behind a mask," yet whole in Christ. Perfect love casts out fear.

And so... poignant lessons were being driven home:

• I almost missed a tremendous blessing and opportunity for service by allowing my fear to overtake me instead of praising God. Focus on and praise for His perfect love overcame my fear!
• Not only are we to be exhorting and admonishing one another, but we are to be submissive to one another. We must be open to listening to our brothers and sisters of Christ to allow them to help us love and live Christ when our focus shifts.
• I must look beyond other's masks (visible and invisible) and simply love them for Christ as the precious family of God did for me that week.
• As we "turn our eyes upon Jesus," the things of earth do grow strangely dim. With our focus on Him and praising Him, joy replaces mourning; love replaces fear.

And so... I will sing praises to Him even from Behind the Mask! :) 

You are truly blessed!

Recently, on a vacation to Pictured Rocks, I was surprised by so many people telling me how courageous I was to get out to walk trails or whatever we were doing. Then, it hit me... depending on where I was and what we were doing, I had to use crutches or wear my mask in addition to my three leg braces. Indeed, I look a mess. :) The funny part was that when we took pictures, I forgot I had the mask on and smiled for the camera. Oops... :) My eyes are smiling in the pictures!

This morning, I had to do the dreaded shoe shopping - for both brace and non-brace shoes for an upcoming conference/concert. Let's just say that to me shoe shopping ranks right up there with having a root canal, or in this case, a double-root canal. Seriously! If I find shoes that fit, the cost is prohibitive. Yet... our ever-faithful God went before me and was with me. I was not shopping alone!

A store worker who really didn't have to insisted on running to the shelves to get shoes for me and became intrigued with the challenge of finding shoes that fit. She was tenacious in finding two pair of shoes and, actually, had a great eye for it. It took a very short time to find two pair of black shoes for my upcoming trip, both on sale with a coupon besides! I praised our precious Savior for this provision as it is very difficult to shoe shop alone, putting the brace on and off to get different sizes! He had met me in a shopping trip I dreaded!

As she helped me, the conversation turned to the obvious challenges I face. I briefly told of the challenges life has brought and of how God has sustained me and helped me. After hearing my story, she looked at me, mask, braces, limp and all, and said, "It strikes me that you are truly blessed!" Her comment struck me as it was obvious that God had shown through the mask, braces, and limp!

My heart sang even more! It reminded me of the verses in 2 Corinthians 12:9-10, "8 Concerning this, I pleaded with the Lord three times to take it away from me. 9 But He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power[a]is perfected in weakness.” Therefore, I will most gladly boast all the more about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may reside in me. 10 So I take pleasure in weaknesses, insults, catastrophes, persecutions, and in pressures, because of Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong."

I am truly blessed! May He be the One people see when they look at me, for He has truly blessed me. 

The songs, "My Story" and "Lifesong," came to mind.

Big Daddy Weave Lyrics

Play "My Story" on Amazon Music

"My Story"

If I told you my story
You would hear Hope that wouldn't let go
And if I told you my story
You would hear Love that never gave up
And if I told you my story
You would hear Life, but it wasn't mine

If I should speak then let it be
Of the grace that is greater than all my sin
Of when justice was served and where mercy wins
Of the kindness of Jesus that draws me in
Oh to tell you my story is to tell of Him

If I told you my story
You would hear victory over the enemy
And if I told you my story
You would hear freedom that was won for me
And if I told you my story
You would hear Life overcome the grave

If I should speak then let it be
Of the grace that is greater than all my sin
Of when justice was served and where mercy wins
Of the kindness of Jesus that draws me in
Oh to tell you my story is to tell of Him

This is my story, this is my song
Praising my savior all the day long
This is my story, this is my song
Praising my savior all the day long

For the grace that is greater than all my sin
Of when justice was served and where mercy wins
Of the kindness of Jesus that draws me in
Oh to tell you my story is to tell
Of the grace that is greater than all my sin
Of when justice was served and where mercy wins
Of the kindness of Jesus that draws me in
Oh to tell you my story is to tell of Him
Oh to tell you my story is to tell of Him

This is my story, this is my song
Praising my Savior all the day long

Lifesong, Casting Crowns

Empty hands held high
Such small sacrifice
Now joined with my life
I sing in vain tonight
May the words I say
And the things I do
Make my lifesong sing
Bring a smile to you

Let my lifesong sing to you
Let my lifesong sing to you
I want to sign your name
To the end of this day
Lord led my heart was true
Let my lifesong sing to you

Lord I give my life
A living sacrifice
To reach a world in need
To be your hands and feet
So may the words I say
And the things I do
Make my lifesong sing
Bring a smile to you

Let my lifesong sing to you
Let my lifesong sing to you
I want to sign your name
To the end of this day
Lord led my heart was true
Let my lifesong sing to you

Hallelujah, Hallelujah let my lifesong sing to you
Hallelujah, Hallelujah let my lifesong sing to you
Hallelujah, Hallelujah let my lifesong sing to you

Let my lifesong sing to you
Let my lifesong sing to you
I want to sign your name
To the end of this day
Lord led my heart was true
Let my lifesong sing to you

Let my lifesong sing to you
Let my lifesong sing to you
I want to sign your name
To the end of this day
Lord led my heart was true
Let my lifesong sing to you

Fellowship

After a long battle several months ago, I would describe everything then as grey. Everything was just grey. I could feel the "clouds" weighing in on me. Just talking to people took extreme effort. Hermitage was desirable. Everything seemed to be a mountain. Ho-hum. Life with chronic illnesses and pain is challenging. We often want to hide as it seems overwhelming. During a flare, I often find it difficult to tell the difference between when I should stay home due to honest physical limitations and when it is a spiritual battle. And yet, God has given us a need for fellowship. We are to bear one another's burdens.

Another Sunday had rolled around. It had been a couple weeks since I had been well enough to attend church. As those with chronic illnesses know, loneliness and isolation easily set in. The longer they set in, the more difficult they are to overcome. All my effort went in to simply attending church that Sunday. It was obviously a spiritual battle as I fought to obey. (Hebrews 10:24-25)

My pastor, knowing nothing of my battle, sat down to chat before the service. He took time to visit and check up on the various life challenges in my life. He then graciously spoke truth and encouragement just where I needed it while still unaware of my discouragement battle (to my knowledge).

The music that day was used of God to minister to my specific needs. My spirit began to lift. After church, the grey continued to lift as one by one my dear sisters in Christ stopped by to say a word of encouragement.

As I left church that day, my grey had turned to sunny skies. I considered what God had done for me and began thinking of all the lonely, hurting souls who had not made it to church. My resources are limited. How can I reach out? How can I help them? I thought of several things that which mean a lot to me for others to do which are within my abiliity:

• Listen. Those who are house-bound often get lonely. I can listen when they tell of their challenges and needs, even when they repeat themselves.
• Share. Yes, share their burden, but I can also share my burdens. Often the house-bound to reach out to others, but don't know how. They long to know how to pray effectively, specifically.
• Encourage. When one is chronically ill, it is easy to focus on the mountains instead of the God of the mountains. Encourage them with Scripture that God is using in your life. Be careful, though, not to throw Scripture at them. :) 
• Write. Send notes of encouragement. Yes, text and email are great, but paper and ink mean a lot. Short notes are just as encouraging as long ones. Simply show love by sending a note.

God made us to need fellowship. My fellow sufferers, seek fellowship with other believers as often as possible. Then, don't forget your family who are housebound. Reach out to them in friendship.